Cuz They Said So

I believe I first met Cowboy Gene on the Facebook. He was training with Phil Stevens, a friend of mine, down in Arizona and kicking arse all over the place. I met him face to face while living down in Texas when Gene and Phil moseyed over for a Roundtable event that included Rippetoe; Wendler; and Suggs. It really was one of my favorite (non-Bigg) weekend’s down there.

Of course, when they hit town, I immediately had to bring them down to the Bar-L for Red Draws they serve you in your car. Yup, drinks drive-in. Texas isn’t all bad.

Gene and Phil at Bar L

After spending about 15 minutes with Gene, you get a clear message of who he is. A gentlemen; a patriot; a lifter; and a charmer. Seriously, he really should think about doing weekend seminars to the males of today on how to be a mixture of Clint Eastwood, Sam Elliot, Ed Coan, Sam Houston, and many other great men I’m not thinking of at the moment.

At 70 years young, Gene continues to go for records on the platform. He recently competed at a USPF regional meet, here are his bench and deadlift: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RdTeA35y4JE. There is some dissension in the ranks as to whether or not he locked out his final pull. Of course I believe he did and I also believe the head judge snoozed. But I wasn’t there, so I don’t know. That’s not the point. The point? Gene’s response:

Most agree it was not a good call, but you can’t argue with the judges call.

Sooooo, basically…judges said so.  End of story. No drama here folks, move along. See, that’s how adults behave. No bitching and moaning; not complete agreement but willing to concede to the judges. Because at the end of the day, the judges have the final say. Those of us who have been competing for a while understand this. No whining; no pouting; no foot stomp or lashing out. We show respect and let the cards fall where they may. Gene is a good teacher.

Suggs and cowboy Gene

Here’s Tommy and Gene talking story. Two amazing men who could teach the low testosterone males of today how to roll.

Congratulations to Gene for another great meet, thanks for the lessons. You are the model.

When I stand before God at the end of my life, I would hope that I would not have a single bit of talent left, and could say, ‘I used everything you gave me.’ 

Erma Bombeck

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Monday Bacon: NO!

Another memo I’ve missed in life. The one where the word ‘NO!’ went out of style for parents. Reason, we want to reason with our four year olds now. NO! is too harsh, we don’t want to raise our kids as harshly as our parents raised us. Sometimes we were even spanked, hard. That is barbaric (read: effective) and has no place in today’s kinder and gentler society.

Bullshit. Did I stutter? Bullshit.

We had dinner at the Bigg guy’s folks house last night with part of the crew including strong sister Kitty and her two daughters (pops was out keeping the streets safe on the day shift.) Their oldest daughter, one and a half year old Kloey is about as cute as they come. Tons of personality and a baby belly to boot, she’s practicing the art of “playing the crowd.” And it works, mostly. But something went down at G’ma’s that crossed the line and she got a loud and stern ‘NO!’ that caused tears but also came with an understanding that ‘we don’t got time for that.’ And of course, once she realized Ma wasn’t messing around, she chilled and went on with life. Point goes to Kitty.

And here’s the lesson: the word ‘NO!’ is a line drawn in the sand for kids. It will not be crossed, but if it is, you’re in for it. Remember those days? Those, ‘wait until your father gets home’ days? Only Ma doesn’t play that way so shit hits the fan now…and probably again when Pa gets home.

Giving kids reasons as to why we ‘really shouldn’t do that honey’ gives them the point. Why? Cuz they don’t care. At all. They win and that’s all they care about. Cuz they’re kids. There are going to be times in life where you’re going to have to be harsh (damn! I hate when my parent’s are right.) ‘NO!’ is one of those times. Kids don’t get to grow up thinking everything is negotiable and then pouting when they’re 23 and don’t get their way. See how that works? Kids learning from parents that ‘NO!’ happens throughout life is ok. They’ll be okay, in fact, they’ll accept it and move on. Unless you don’t teach them. Duh.

I’m going to the bathroom since I don’t have a kid in my arms.

Kitty

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Friday Jams

I’m not a huge fan of Beck, but I heard this song on the way home from Minnesota last weekend at that exact moment of a road trip where you’re bored and tired and your navigator is sleeping. It gave me enough pep for the hour left home and I appreciate that.

Beck. Black Tambourine.

Enjoy the weekend.

There are no environments where you’re only going to win, because life just isn’t like that.

Bobby Orr

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Backyard Games

I’ve had a lot of fun so far this season traveling around to exotic Games venues such as Springfield, IL…

And Rockford, IL…

The train tracks that ran straight through our Water Closet was really classy. Heh.

But soon enough we’ll practically be in our own back yard. The Milwaukee Highland Games are just around the corner and right down the street for us. I’m looking forward to sleeping in my own bed; making my own Pressed coffee; and only having to drive a half mile to get there.

I’m really looking forward to having  the Canadian Texan come to town for it,

great pic, eh?

There’s bands, and dogs, and dancers, and McBob’s. What else do you need? All here in our back yard!

So save the date, June 1st, and git’chr arse down here. It’s sure to be a blast!

Deadwood Quote of the Day

Lord, grant that I may seek rather to comfort than be comforted, to understand, than to be understood, to love, than to be loved…and the rest I forget.

Reverend H.W. Smith

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