Monday Bacon: NO!

Another memo I’ve missed in life. The one where the word ‘NO!’ went out of style for parents. Reason, we want to reason with our four year olds now. NO! is too harsh, we don’t want to raise our kids as harshly as our parents raised us. Sometimes we were even spanked, hard. That is barbaric (read: effective) and has no place in today’s kinder and gentler society.

Bullshit. Did I stutter? Bullshit.

We had dinner at the Bigg guy’s folks house last night with part of the crew including strong sister Kitty and her two daughters (pops was out keeping the streets safe on the day shift.) Their oldest daughter, one and a half year old Kloey is about as cute as they come. Tons of personality and a baby belly to boot, she’s practicing the art of “playing the crowd.” And it works, mostly. But something went down at G’ma’s that crossed the line and she got a loud and stern ‘NO!’ that caused tears but also came with an understanding that ‘we don’t got time for that.’ And of course, once she realized Ma wasn’t messing around, she chilled and went on with life. Point goes to Kitty.

And here’s the lesson: the word ‘NO!’ is a line drawn in the sand for kids. It will not be crossed, but if it is, you’re in for it. Remember those days? Those, ‘wait until your father gets home’ days? Only Ma doesn’t play that way so shit hits the fan now…and probably again when Pa gets home.

Giving kids reasons as to why we ‘really shouldn’t do that honey’ gives them the point. Why? Cuz they don’t care. At all. They win and that’s all they care about. Cuz they’re kids. There are going to be times in life where you’re going to have to be harsh (damn! I hate when my parent’s are right.) ‘NO!’ is one of those times. Kids don’t get to grow up thinking everything is negotiable and then pouting when they’re 23 and don’t get their way. See how that works? Kids learning from parents that ‘NO!’ happens throughout life is ok. They’ll be okay, in fact, they’ll accept it and move on. Unless you don’t teach them. Duh.

I’m going to the bathroom since I don’t have a kid in my arms.

Kitty

Training Log

Posted in Uncategorized | Tagged , , , | Leave a comment

Friday Jams

I’m not a huge fan of Beck, but I heard this song on the way home from Minnesota last weekend at that exact moment of a road trip where you’re bored and tired and your navigator is sleeping. It gave me enough pep for the hour left home and I appreciate that.

Beck. Black Tambourine.

Enjoy the weekend.

There are no environments where you’re only going to win, because life just isn’t like that.

Bobby Orr

Training Log

Posted in Uncategorized | Tagged , , | Leave a comment

Backyard Games

I’ve had a lot of fun so far this season traveling around to exotic Games venues such as Springfield, IL…

And Rockford, IL…

The train tracks that ran straight through our Water Closet was really classy. Heh.

But soon enough we’ll practically be in our own back yard. The Milwaukee Highland Games are just around the corner and right down the street for us. I’m looking forward to sleeping in my own bed; making my own Pressed coffee; and only having to drive a half mile to get there.

I’m really looking forward to having  the Canadian Texan come to town for it,

great pic, eh?

There’s bands, and dogs, and dancers, and McBob’s. What else do you need? All here in our back yard!

So save the date, June 1st, and git’chr arse down here. It’s sure to be a blast!

Deadwood Quote of the Day

Lord, grant that I may seek rather to comfort than be comforted, to understand, than to be understood, to love, than to be loved…and the rest I forget.

Reverend H.W. Smith

Training Log

Posted in Uncategorized | 2 Comments

Training Camp

I’d been looking forward to the Minnesota Scottish Fair and Highland Games for a while now. A chance to spend a weekend “at home” (Minneapolis area); a chance to spend some time with my Z’s (who came for dinner, free food YO!); and another chance to learn.

And learn I did.

Jeff Bryan, the A.D. for the Games, gave us a competitors list which gave me a chance to scope out the competition. Turns out the women’s side wasn’t going to be much of a competition…on my end. Sara Hilgers took 3rd this year at the Women’s World Championships. Katie Steingraeber took 5th. Holy crap. To go to a games and throw alongside this caliber of athlete is part of what makes the Highland Games awesome.

ADD in the fact that my new friend and Fork/Sheaf expert (and maker) Jason Clevenger came from Illinois and threw with the Master’s in our group and I pretty much just paid an entry fee for a day long training camp with some of the best of the best in this sport.

As is almost ALWAYS the case with throwers I’ve met so far, Sara and Katie were very friendly and helpful throughout the day. I had to  quickly make notes on the i-phone of all the cues and tricks they, and Jason, gave me. I also chuckled at the fact that even though they’ve been constrained by the same weather as I’ve been in terms having lack of practice opportunities (they’re also from Wisconsin), they’d get just as frustrated as I would at “poor” throws. I say “poor” cuz they were still sometimes over 20′ further than mine.

Both Sara and Katie have an excellent coaching eye and were able to give useful cues to help my future throws. There were plenty of times I forgot that I was a competitor and just watched in awe. I also learned that this is something I need to change.

I’ve mentioned before that I am uber competitive and while I need to use that energy in my throws, I can’t let it distract me enough to take me out of an event. In this case, I was in pure learning mode and didn’t bring enough of that competitive spirit to the trig with me. I believe that while I need to use this opportunity to learn and show respect, I also need to compete to the best of MY ability. I don’t think I did that. So I need to fix that before I go to Enumclaw in July and compete with more “best of” athletes.

Overall it was an incredible day. I’m so thankful to these top athletes for being such classy and selfless competitors. Thanks to Jason for spending time with me afterwards to get me on track with some Sheaf drills.  Mother nature seems awfully pissed at Minnesota for some reason, dumping up to a foot of snow in the surrounding areas last week but the day was dry and the field was fine.

And the PRIZES! Here’s Jeff Bryan and I with my 3rd place prize. If you know what this thing is called, let me know.

MinnesotaScottishGames

Be bold. If you’re going to make an error, make a doozy, and don’t be afraid to hit the ball.

Billie Jean King

Training Log

Posted in Uncategorized | Tagged , , , | 2 Comments